Monday, October 22, 2012

“Ask The Missionaries – They Can Help With That”


 
October 8, 2012

 

Hello family!

General Conference was AWESOME!!! I am freaking out, and now I'm freaking out even more because only Mom emailed me and she didn't say anything at all about how girls can go on a mission at 19 years old now! What did you all think? At first I was just thinking, oh that's really cool, and then I realized that Cortney is 19 and she has always said she wants to go on a mission! What's the status on that? I wish someone would have emailed me about it. Cortz, are you going on a mission now? We could have two sister missionaries out at the same time! That would be so crazy, weird, and amazing! The really amazing thing about the ages of missionary service being changed is that it makes me think about how the Lord is enlisting everyone he can to go out and bring more people into the fold. The time of the second coming is so near, because he needs everyone in His army declaring the truth! The way is being prepared for Him to come again! So cool!

Kayli V, one of my lovely recent converts, who I love so much, has been thinking about going on a mission and praying about it (she's only 19). Last Sunday she was actually fasting about going on a mission and we taught her, Tonya, and Caitlyn a new member lesson about missionary work. She took that as something of a sign. Then, when President Monson announced at Conference that 19 year old girls can now go, she got really excited and she really wants to go now. I'm so happy for her! That was seriously such great news when she told us that she really wants to go on a mission! I have been telling her a lot that she should go. I'm just excited for her.

Thanks for the package you sent, Mom. It was so nice! I loved the pictures! Everyone looks so good, and that picture of Britt with Rowyn is super foxy, as well as the picture of Mom, Nan, Britt and Rowyn. Well, they were all really cute pictures. Thanks, Ammon, for the candy! I was able to munch on some while I watched conference at the stake center. Mmmmm, my favorite kind of candy - tootie fruties.

What did everyone think of Conference? What were your favorite talks? I loved all of them, especially President Uchtdorf's and Elder Holland's (of course). Elder Holland's was so powerful! I felt the Spirit a lot as he spoke, and at the end when he talked about the Lord asking each of us "dost thou love me?" I was filled with emotion as I thought about the Savior and what he asks of me. Am I reaching my potential? Am I a disciple of Christ? I just want to serve with all my might so that I am showing Him how much I truly love Him. I want to become who He knows I can become and I don't want to disappoint Him or make Him ask me again "dost thou love me?" after I have answered him that I do.

Here's the weekly work update!

We taught some great lessons this week, and I felt really good about them. I did have some struggles this week with my companion, I won’t lie. The thing is that I was really happy throughout the week, but it just felt like she didn't want to be happy. It makes it hard when she decides to be upset and I don't know any reason for it. I have been trying  hard to watch what I say and how I say things and I've been trying to help her feel happy, but I don't know how much that worked. I just decided that I'm going to be happy and I'm going to work hard and just try to serve her. That's all I can do- my best to be a good companion. I can't force her to do anything or feel any way. Pray for me to be patient. I know I can be!

This week we taught the Matweyew family, Nancy, Kelsey and Nanci B (less-active and investigator daughter), Anthony, Tyler, Rose, Brother Peters, Wendy, Annette, Heena, Connor (recent convert), Delfy, Hans, the Bergs (less-active), and our recent convert group of Kayli, Caitlyn, and Tonya.

Our lesson with Stephanie and Gavin (Matweyew) was really great! We watched the restoration DVD, which is a clip from the Prophet of the Restoration movie of everything leading up to the first vision and the Book of Mormon being translated. After we watched the movie, we asked how they both felt as they watched it. Gavin said it helped him understand a lot better what happened and he said that he felt really good while he watched. Sister Matweyew started crying and talked about how she understood what Joseph Smith went through. She felt like she's gone to so many churches growing up and felt like she was just waiting to find the truth. I felt the Spirit a lot as she was talking about that, and I know that she has finally found it. This is Christ's church on the earth, and I was so happy to tell her that. I felt so much power in those words as I shared my testimony with her. She also talked about how she's felt so much more strength in her life as she's been meeting with us. She said she has had strength to do things that are really best for her family that she never would have done before. I really felt grateful that the Spirit was there, because I had been praying a lot that when we taught them they would have a spiritual experience. Just as President Monson spoke about, our prayers are answered in the small and large blessings we can see in our lives! As a missionary, I feel like we are really able to know the power of prayer because we aren't left alone to do this work, of that I am sure.

This week with Heena, we went to the church and did a church tour with her. It was really cool to walk around the church and just tell her about what each room is used for and what she would be doing when she comes to church. We paused at different pictures of Christ and I felt the Spirit a lot as we just stood there in silence and took in the images of the Savior. Heena seemed to really be enjoying it. The best part, of course, was when we walked into the chapel at the end. I really feel like I stepped through a force field of the spirit as I walked into the chapel. It was so peaceful and calm as we sat in a pew and taught her about the sacrament and read in Corinthians about the Savior instituting the sacrament with the apostles. I am so grateful that I can feel the Spirit every day. It's something that was missing in my life before my mission, and after feeling it so often as a missionary I will never want to go back to just feeling it once a week in church or whatever. We are entitled to have the Spirit with us at all times when we have the gift of the Holy Ghost, and I wasn't taking full advantage of that gift. Now that I have started to understand it better, that gives me a great desire to help others receive that same gift after baptism, because it is so amazing to have the presence of the Spirit in your life all the time. At the end of the tour, Heena said that she really liked it and she really felt good. She is so wonderful. She talked to us about how she's been praying the way we taught her every night and now she said she's doing it in the mornings, too, before she does her Hindu prayers! That's great! She is always talking about how good praying makes her feel, and we constantly are reminding her that she is feeling the Spirit. I just want her to get baptized so she can have the Spirit with her all the time! We're working with her to get her to come to church. She came to General Conference with us Sat morning and said she really liked that as well, so she's been making big steps in the right direction. Now, we just have to help her continue progressing toward baptism. I just love her!

Anthony is one of my favorite people to teach, because I just love getting to teach youth. I think I love it because I know how the gospel will change the course of their lives, and being able to help them know the truth early on is really exciting. Anthony isn't a normal teenager. He is so focused as we teach him, even when he doesn't seem focused. When we ask him questions to range how much he understood or was listening, he is always able to answer in a way that shows that he really understood what we were teaching him. He reads the Book of Mormon in between each visit, and I can tell that he really wants to learn and be baptized. Once again I am grateful for the Spirit, because I know that Anthony can feel that the things we are teaching him are true. He has talked about how good he feels as we teach him and I am so happy that he is recognizing a difference. His lesson was really great because we had it at Tonya's house with Tonya, Kayli, and Caitlyn there. They have really taken Anthony under their wings and are trying to get him as involved as they can. They are so wonderful and I know that it will really help Anthony to have that support because I'm not sure if he has any coming from home. Every time we leave after teaching Anthony, I am always filled with so much love for him and I know that's a blessing that comes from the Spirit as well.

Hans is a man that we've shared scriptures with on his doorstep like 5 times, but we have never gotten to go in because he's a single man. We've set up appointments so we could bring a woman with us and he would usually have something come up and would cancel. We finally got to teach him this week! We actually met him at a park near his home and brought Sister Omer with us from the ward. Sister Omer served a mission in Brazil. She was great to have along with us. Hans is such a cool guy. He has a lot of knowledge about, well it seems like everything. When he had cancelled on us one day, he had told us in a text that he still wanted to meet with us because he could tell that "[our] message has great purpose." Isn't that awesome?! Well, as we taught him about the restoration he was very intrigued. He asked a lot of really great questions. At the end of the lesson he told us that what we had just shared with him is really huge. He talked about how he had never heard anything like that before. I was thinking "I know Hans, because you haven't heard the truth yet." Haha. My favorite part of teaching him was when we had him read Moroni's promise (Moroni 10:3-5). He read it out loud and before we even asked what it meant to him, he told us that it was obvious that everyone is being invited to read the Book of Mormon to find out if it's true. Then he said that the most important part of what he read was that the only way he would get an answer is if he's really sincere and desires it. He talked about how no one could go into finding out if it's true half-hearted. We invited him to take Moroni's promise and read and pray about the Book of Mormon. He told us that he would absolutely pray about the message that we shared and that if, as he prays, he is directed to read the Book of Mormon that he would do so. I know that he will if he does take the time to pray and ask God if what we taught him is true. I am so excited for Hans to learn more. He just seems like a lonely guy. He told us himself that he is a searcher. I just want to help him find what he's been looking for - the gospel! He's so great. I can't wait to teach him again.

One sad point of the week was that we had to drop Gary Gunn. That was hard for me because I really love Gary. I had been praying so much, and so hard, that he would open up and let the Spirit touch his heart, or more likely respond to the Spirit which has definitely already touched his heart. However, he just isn't ready at this time to receive the message of the truth. I think his mind is just too clouded by his sorrow over the loss of his wife, and he can't find room in there to give to finding out if our message is true. I don't know, though. I just know that what he needs is the gospel. That is what will heal the wounds that he has from losing his wife, but he wasn't willing to read or pray and he stopped coming to church. I'm going to continue to pray for him and for missionaries to visit him again someday when he is more prepared. It was really sad as we drove away from his home, because I knew that I would probably never see him again. When I finish my mission, I am definitely going to write him a letter and find out how he's doing. Hopefully by then he'll be more prepared. Only the Lord knows when Gary will be ready to receive the message of the gospel.

We had our last lesson with Tyler this week. Now he is in the hands of the YSA elders. We brought Kayli with us to the appointment and it was great. Tyler's relationship with God, through prayer, is really strong. He told us about how he's felt as he has been praying and talked about how he has been getting a lot of answers to his prayers. He had been praying a lot for his best friend, Allie, to be less against him being baptized and he found that the Lord did soften her heart. That was a great blessing, because I've been praying for those around him to have their hearts softened toward the gospel, as well. Kayli shared how she overcame her trials before she was baptized followed by a really powerful testimony. I was really glad that we had invited her to come, because it's hard to not feel the Spirit when she's bearing her testimony. It is so simple and pure. I think Tyler felt the Spirit a lot from hearing the testimony of someone who has gone through what he is kind of going through as he works toward baptism. Tyler is just really awesome and I'm sad we don't get to teach him anymore, but it's what's best for him. I just hope the elders take good care of him!

It was a good week. I see the hand of the Lord in this work whenever I take the time to look for Him. I know that we are not alone in the vineyard, just as it talks about in Jacob 5:71-72. The Lord is laboring here with me and he will continue to work here after I'm gone from Moorpark. I just hope to work with my might and bring forth fruit that is pleasing to Him.

I hope you all will have another good week! I want to hear about missionary experiences my family is having, but no one ever shares any. That means you aren't having them! Haha. Will you all pray to have missionary opportunities? It's so important for everyone to share the gospel. The Lord needs all of us.
I love you all so much.

 
Love,
Sister Bennett


 

 
Funny stories:
When we had exchanges last week, we stayed up talking with Sister Lillywhite for quite a while. In the time that we were talking I just fell asleep, but Sis Wilk and Lillywhite continued talking. At one point I kind of started waking up and I heard Sis Wilk say "Well, I guess we don't really have much more to talk about so we should probably sleep." I was still kind of asleep, however. I then heard the blinds over the sliding screen door moving and remembered that I hadn't shut the screen door before I went to sleep. The thought popped into my head that someone might be in the apartment. A few seconds later I heard running and opened my eyes and someone was in the doorway. I gasped! The first thought that popped into my head was "We're missionaries! How can this happen to us? We'll be protected!" I was frozen. I had no idea what to do. Then Sis Wilk said "what?" It was her standing in the doorway. She went to get the fan and I must have fallen back asleep after I heard her say "let's go to bed." I cannot tell you how real I thought that was. I truly believed that there was an intruder in our apartment. The worst part was that I was frozen! If that really happened I wouldn't even be able to defend myself! That was so crazy. I seriously had a heart attack. After I realized it was Sis Wilk I recognized that I was breathing really quickly and my heart was pounding! Hahahahah. It was so so so so so scary. That was the scariest moment of my life so far. Good thing it wasn't real. Right mom?
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

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