Tuesday, December 11, 2012

Putting the TRAIN in Training-Wheels




November 26, 2012


Oooooh boy, you all are in for a good email today! 

Well, how do I put the TRAIN in training-wheels you ask? I've been called to be a trainer in Moorpark this transfer! CRAZY! This will be my 5th transfer in Moorpark! I can't believe I'm training. I am so nervous, you have no idea. I feel very humbled at the idea that the Lord sees fit for me to train an incoming missionary. This is a big responsibility. I'm helping set the standard for this Sister's entire mission. I prayed a lot about it last night and this morning, shed a few tears, to be honest, and felt the confirmation that this is what the Lord knows and sees that I should do. I know that he will qualify me to do this. I just need to have faith and be obedient and I know that I will be able to help this sister start her mission out right. Please keep me in your prayers a lot. I know you already do pray for me. I read a scripture this week that reminded me of the support of my family - Moroni 8:2-3. Just say a few extra prayers for me now. Thanks! 

How is my family?!? I hope you had an awesome Thanksgiving! I haven't gotten to read the email from Mom yet about the craziness at the Bennett home,  but I'm sure it was really fun. I spent Thanksgiving at the Akinas' home. I really like their family, but they are too willing to have missionaries be disobedient. They were telling us about things that the missionaries would do with them in the past when they came for a holiday and I was like "ooooooh no sir!" We do not disobey. I had a lot of fun eating with them, but for the next holiday I'm definitely going to do things differently. This having been my first one, I wasn't really sure how things are supposed to go, but now that I have, I want to change things a lot. We started the day off by having district meeting. That was good as always, and then the festivities began. The Akinas had us come over at like 3 and we didn't eat until 5! I was not happy with that. I mean, it was nice to spend some time there with them. We played a few games that were really fun. The Akinas have 4 daughters and three of them were home. Jade (19), Kayla (9), and Alee (16). They seemed to enjoy having us there and they laughed at me a bit too often. Haha. I seem to make a fool of myself a lot. The food was good that we had. I missed having ham, especially since I don't like turkey, but it wasn't that bad. They cooked it on a rotisserie thing. It was pretty...alright. Haha. After we finally left the Akinas, we went to a part-member family's home and had pie. Bill is the non-member and we've started meeting with him. Their family is really great and I'm really happy that we got to go and spend some time with them. For Christmas, I want to be out talking to people a little more. I thought it would be a really good opportunity to go and share a message and everyone in the zone was praying to find a family to teach since they are usually all home and together on holidays. Well, we didn't have that chance because we were barely out talking to people at all! Oh well, it was still a really good holiday and I'm grateful for the people that were so kind to us and fed us and what not. I will be honest, I felt a little homesick when I woke up Thanksgiving morning. I've never been away from home for any holidays. Plus, it made it a little harder to know that you were all together. I just had to push my thoughts about what I would usually have been doing on that day out of my head. Just know I thought of you all! However, you should be a little jealous because it was 84 degrees here for Thanksgiving. How's the weather where all of you are? Hahaha! Suckers! 

One sad thing that happened this week was that Brother Lutz is going to be released as the ward mission leader in second ward. They just reorganized the Bishopric and he is the 1st counselor now. He hasn't technically been released, so I'm not through with him yet! Hahah. He's so great. I love their family a lot. They've definitely been my family away from home and the idea that I wont see them as much makes me a bit sad, but I know that he's been called to do what the Lord needs him to do and that our next ward mission leader will be really great as well. We're going to be spending Christmas at the Lutzs' so I'm really excited about that! OH, one funny thing that brother Lutz told me about last night. He said that he was talking in his Bishopric meeting about us and how the ward would be losing a missionary (because Brother Lutz kept telling me that I'm going to Bakersfield) and Brother Rasmussen said "Which one? Is it the athletic one?" Brother Lutz said yeah and asked how he knew I was athletic and Brother Rasmussen told him that he could tell by the way I walk and present myself. Haha. OH GREAT! What does that mean? haha. 

Now for the update:
This week went really well. We saw a lot of miracles and very promising new investigators. I'm really excited that I will be staying here for this next transfer to continue seeing the fruits of our labors here. I was a little sad at the possibility of missing out on Anthony's and Nancy's baptisms as well as not getting to teach some of these new investigators that we have now. I have seen the Lord's hand in this work a lot this week and I know that he will continue to guide it here in Moorpark. 

Just yesterday we had a great miracle; every single person that we tried to contact was home and we had a lesson with all of them! It was really awesome because I had prayed a lot the night before and yesterday morning that the people that we wanted to try to see would be home. I was praying especially hard because on Saturday night no one was home! That's the worst when that happens because it feels like we aren't doing anything. We need to be talking to people and it just felt like we were in the car so much, driving from house to house. That was a great blessing to have had so many lessons yesterday. Hard work does pay off. Add in obedience and you have a recipe for success. 

This week we taught the Matweyews, Anthony, Michael, Delfy, Nancy, Nanci and Kelsey, Heidi, Blake, the Oatmans (Keith and Deanna), the Caudels (less-active), the Smedleys (less-active), TerryAnne, Brother Mason, Gisele, Monica, and Sister Schaffner.

Our lesson with Delfy went really well. We taught her about prophets because she said she believes that Joseph Smith was a prophet (supposedly) but she believes there are many prophets. She said there are probably a lot on the earth at this time and we just don't know about it. I guess we didn't help her understand the role of a prophet well enough. We talked to her about authority and about how God has always called a prophet to lead and guide His children on the earth. That morning during studies, there were specific scriptures that really stuck out to us for teaching Delfy and the Lord obviously prepared us because Delfy seemed to gain a better understanding through those scriptures. I think Delfy believes us, the missionaries, when we say things, but I know that she doesn't have her own testimony of these things because she is struggling with reading the Book of Mormon. I just felt a huge desire for her to read it because I know that if she does she will find out that it's true. I bore my testimony to her and promised her that she would get an answer if she would sacrifice some of her time to read and pray about it. The Spirit was very strong and I have been praying a lot that she will have a desire to read it. If not, we may need to stop visiting her because I'm worried that she just likes the missionaries too much. It's not about us, it's about finding the truth for herself, but she needs to have a desire. We'll see what happens there. You can tell someone is becoming too comfortable/converted to the missionaries when they're worried all of the time about if we're leaving or not and not more concerned about the messages we share. Delfy has a lot of faith and I know she has felt the Spirit, but I don't know if she is ready yet to accept the gospel. 

We got to teach Heidi again this week. She's pretty great. She has a lot of questions and it makes me excited because I know that if she will read the Book of Mormon that those questions will be answered. Heidi has a 12 year old daughter and we really hope that she, Rachel, will get involved in the lessons. I think Rachel would really like church and that she'll connect well with young women there. Rachel plays the drums, and so do I, so we connected quickly and I just hope that my companion and I can be good examples to her and that she'll want to learn herself. Heidi seems very logical, which is fine. She just doesn't seem to have a firm foundation in her life at all. We taught her about the Plan of Salvation because she asked a lot about why it matters if what we teach is true. I think, well I know, that Heidi really needs to gain a testimony of the Plan of Salvation so she doesn't feel like she's just wandering around in her life. She talks about how she has had many different "purposes" - being a student, having a career, raising a child. She feels like she's completed a lot of her purposes here in life, so it was fun teaching her about the plan that God has for us. I really hope Heidi will start coming to church because I think she could really use that support in her life. She's a single mom and it doesn't seem like she has many friends, so one goal that we have is to get her to church, of course, but also to really try to get members involved in her conversion. 

We also got to teach Gisele again this week. She's so sweet. She seems very open to learning and said that she is excited to read the Book of Mormon. Brother Lutz, our ward mission leader, had a copy of the Book of Mormon in Portuguese for us to give her and she was really pumped about that. We are lucky, because in our ward there is a couple who served in Brazil and they are really active in doing missionary work. Sister Omer, the wife, is going to be coming to our next appointment with Gisele, so hopefully they'll really connect and enjoy speaking Portuguese together. It will also be nice to have Sister Omer there because she can explain things that Gisele doesn't quite understand. I'm excited to keep teaching her, but the main goal is really to get her family to learn as well. 

One cool experience that we had while tracting this week was meeting Blake. When Blake opened the door he basically asked us to come back and teach him before we could introduce ourselves. He said he knew who we were and he was really interested in Latter-Day Saints and what we believe. He also told us that he has read part of the Book of Mormon and really enjoyed the message that it contains. He talked to us about how he has met so many different LDS people and he feels that we contribute so much to society. Basically he just had a ton of good stuff to say about the LDS faith. We asked him if we could pray with him and explained how we pray. We talked about how we know it's not memorized but that it is truly a relationship that we have with our Father in Heaven through prayer. He remarked that that is really nice and after Sister Putnam prayed he said that her prayer was very beautiful. I'm super excited to go back and teach him next Saturday! He seems to be very prepared to learn about the gospel, so I'll keep you updated on that. 

I love you all so much. 

Talk to you soon,
Sister Bennett 









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