Sunday, October 13, 2013

Whirlwind of CHANGE





 June 17, 2013



Dear Family,

Well, to start it all out I guess I should update you all on what’s going with me here. I am whitewash training and continuing to have the assignment of Sister Training Leader. I’m moving to Ventura 4th ward to serve there. Whitewash means that both missionaries are going into an area, brand new to both missionaries. Usually one missionary is transferred in and the other already knows the area. In the case of a whitewash, neither missionary knows the area...so that's great. There is also another set of Spanish Sister Training Leaders who were called, so President is dividing the soon to be 18 companionships of sisters between the 3 sets of Sister Training Leaders. This means that I only get to do 6 exchanges with whatever sisters are assigned to Sister Burwell and me to exchange with. That's a nice part of all of this...I will still get to see Sister Burwell often, because we're still companions as Sister Training Leaders. The 6 exchanges thing is good and sad for me. It’s good because we’ll have more time in our area. The 4th ward has been struggling because the ward just isn’t excited about missionary work…that makes me feel a little overwhelmed. Whitewashing is overwhelming on its own. Training is stressful on its own. Being put in a ward that isn’t very supportive….is stressfully overwhelming. Now…what do you get when you add all of these things to a sister missionary that has to leave at least once a week to go and do exchanges? I don’t know. I guess we’ll find out very soon. Basically, it’s good that I can give the ward more attention than I would’ve if I had more than 6 exchanges. The sad part is that I love all of the sisters so much. It makes me sad that I won’t be able to work with all of them….only 6 companionships. With all of this said, I’m doing alright. I feel a little sick to my stomach because I wasn’t ready to leave the 2nd ward. I really felt like there was more for me to do. Ugh…especially since Sister Burwell and I just started having ASL language study! Isn’t that awesome! We’ve been studying sign language every morning for Aubrey. President Castro gave us a sign language book and said that we needed to start doing language study. Well….that’s over for me now. Amongst all of my aches and pains about leaving 2nd ward and beginning probably the hardest transfer of my mission, the scripture in 2 Nephi 4, verse 34 keeps coming to my mind – “O Lord, I have trusted in thee, and I will trust in thee forever. I will not put my trust in the arm of flesh; for I know that cursed is he that putteth his trust in the arm of flesh . . .” The Lord is trusting me with this assignment. He sees something in me that I cannot currently see, but I am praying that He will quickly raise my vision and help me know the things that I need to do. I know that I can do this. I have had so many experiences in my mission that have helped prepare me to be able to do whatever the Lord asks. I also know that “whom the Lord calls, He qualifies.” Even if I am not yet fully qualified at this time to tackle this task, I know that I will be in time. I know that if I do trust in the Lord, I can do all things. He is trusting me, how can I not put my trust in Him and His grace to make me strong enough to be successful with this assignment? I am giving myself to Him and allowing Him to do what He would like to do with me, my companion, and the area that we are serving in. Please keep me in your prayers. Please.

In other news….this week was really great! We had some great lessons and we had a BAPTISM!! It was a wonderful, wonderful baptism. I couldn’t be happier with the way that I ended my time here in Ventura 2nd ward, really.

This week we taught Aubrey and Tyler, Jeff and Sarah, Maliah, Brother Wages, Geno, Buddah, Suzanne, Lisa, Brother Dumond, the Biglers, Ted, the Rabagos, Stephanie, and the Evangelistas.
Our lesson with Aubrey and Tyler went really well. We hadn’t been able to teach them since they  were both baptized, so it was nice to finally get to meet with them again. We asked them how they felt about their baptism and they both said that they really loved it. Then, we asked Aubrey about her confirmation and if she understood what was said or what was happening. She said she really didn’t understand much of what was going on at all, even though we had taught her about it previously. That’s ok, though, because she had learned a lot…I’m not sure if we could’ve piled much more into her brain. We explained to her what a blessing is and what her blessing meant. We told her that it was special for her, and that she had been given the best gift she can receive in her life. She didn’t remember anything that was said in the actual blessing, so we shared with her the things that we could remember. Her mom was signing for us which was great because she knew how to help Aubrey really focus and understand the things we were telling her. We told her that in her blessing she was told that she is deaf for a reason, it isn’t a mistake, and that she had spoken with her Heavenly Father about having this trial in her life. We told her that she agreed to it. Aubrey’s eyes were huge and she was so focused on her mom as her mom signed these things to her. I’ve never seen Aubrey this focused in the whole time we’ve been teaching her. We went on to tell her that because she is deaf she is able to recognize the Spirit more in her life and that she is to take the gospel to the deaf community. I know that she felt the Spirit confirming to her that those things had come from her Heavenly Father. I felt so much love and so much anticipation as I watched her listen to what her mom was telling her. I could tell that she felt that same love from God. I’m just so excited for her to continue to progress in the gospel. I have learned so much from her humility, patience, and desire to learn more about the plan that God has for us. She is amazing.

We had a really good/needed lesson with Lisa this week. We taught her about keeping the Sabbath day holy. Lisa has always been able to understand clearly the things that we’re teaching her. She says, very often, “That makes sense to me” or “I agree with that.” She told us that she feels like we must be sneaking around and following her or listening to her thoughts, because every time we come over we teach her about something that she’s been thinking about. She said, “It’s so creepy!” That made me smile. It’s a testimony builder to hear people tell me that because it helps me realize that planning is really so important. The time we take each week to pray about and plan the lessons we will teach those  we’re meeting with during the week is valuable. When Lisa said that, it also made me feel like we must really be following the Spirit as we plan. That’s definitely a plus! Anyway, as we finished our lesson with Lisa we talked to her about baptism and how she feels about it. She said that she definitely thinks  that baptism is needed, but she can’t say that she knows that the church is the true church and better than any other church. She talked about how she does feel like she’s gotten closer to God and she said that when she learned about the Plan of Salvation that it really made sense to her, especially about the three kingdoms of glory. She really agrees with that and it answered a lot of questions she had before. We set her with a baptismal date of August 3rd and invited her to pray about that day. I think she’ll make it and will get baptized on that day! It’s so exciting!

OK! Now for Suzanne’s baptism! It went really well. The talks were so great. Sister Smith’s, (Suzanne’s fellowshipper), granddaughter, Tiana, spoke on baptism. She just came back from her mission in Ogden and she did a great job. She spoke about the atonement and how baptism allows us to fully access the atonement in our lives. That was really great. Suzanne was baptized by a young man who will be going on a mission soon. She didn’t really know any priesthood holders, so we thought it would be a good opportunity for someone who’s preparing for a mission to do it. That made it even sweeter. Suzanne was just so grateful and so happy about all of it. She said she’s been waiting/looking for this for a very long time. I felt the Spirit a lot, and I just love Suzanne so much! That was the perfect note to leave on…a beautiful baptism.

Well, I’m looking forward to see what the future holds for me. I’m doing my best to press onward with an eye of faith, putting all of my trust in the Lord. 

I love you all, 

Sister Bennett 



                           Baptism of Suzanne   







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