Monday, September 30, 2013

4 Teeth Later



May 6, 2013

Dear Family,

Happy Birthday to Dad! For Dad's birthday I got a gift...finding out that my wisdom teeth needed OUT! Lame.
Oh boy, this sure was an interesting week. I don't know that I have a ton to report on because I spent so much time inside...sleeping! The whole wisdom teeth thing happened so quickly, but felt like such an ordeal to me. That was just the last thing in the world that I wanted to worry about. I kept thinking "Oh, I wish I would've just kept it in and not told Sister Castro that my teeth were bothering me" so I could've just kept on working as usual, but I know that I was inspired to share that with her and with President. Those teeth may have ended up causing more problems later. I'm pretty amazed at how quickly I've recovered. I wasn't in a huge deal of pain, but I couldn't talk too much...I'll be honest, that still didn't really stop me. We had a few lessons on Saturday that I was determined to go to, so yesterday morning I was very sore from talking so much in those lessons. I told myself that I needed to slow down and not talk, but that didn't really register in my mind, I guess. I'm really grateful for the members in the ward and for the missionaries that are serving around me. They were very considerate of me and were so willing to help me with anything I was in need of. I learned a lot from this experience. I think it helped me recognize my limits more, and that I need to work within my means. Sometimes I almost kill myself from doing so much, but I understand that the Lord doesn't want me to burn myself out doing this work. I just need to do as much as I can and not demand more of myself than that. I also learned to allow my companion to serve me. So often I just prefer to do things on my own that I don't allow my companions to help me, but since I really couldn't do everything for myself, I was forced to let my companion help me. I saw that it made Sister Burwell really happy to be able to serve me and I need to let her serve me if that's what she would like to do. Anyway, I'm doing well, now. I'm still a little sore, but I am able to do the work as usual...now just with four holes in my mouth.

Amidst the craziness of the week, we still had two really great lessons with Aubrey and Tyler. On Saturday morning, we received a text message from Brother Wood. He told us that Sister Wood had gone into labor that morning, so she wasn't going to be able to interpret for our lesson with Aubrey and Tyler. I was just surprised that they remembered to notify us...they are so missionary minded. Well, that presented us with a problem because Sister Overton, the other sister in the ward that knows sign language, was gone all day for stake temple day. We decided to just go ahead with the lesson, so we watched Finding Faith in Christ with them. The movie didn't have ASL on it, so we just had the subtitles and Sister Pellum signed a few things to Aubrey to help her understand what was going on. I think that helped Aubrey gain a way better understanding of who Jesus Christ is and what He did while he was here on the earth. She was basically sitting on the edge of her seat and wouldn't really look at her mom when Sister Pellum was signing things to her. It helped her see the emotions that people had as they were around the Savior and the magnitude of what He did for us. When the part of his crucifixion came on, Aubrey was covering her eyes because she didn't like it. Yesterday, we had another lesson with Tyler and Aubrey and we talked about the 1st principles and ordinances of the gospel. It's always a challenge trying to figure out what we can do to help Aubrey connect the things we're teaching to visual things. That's what helps her the most. We decided to make two little people out of cloth and put ketchup on them (representing sin). Then we talked about how Jesus Christ is the "Tide-to-go" pen that cleans stains off. We talked about how when we live the gospel, we are allowing Jesus Christ's sacrifice to cleanse us from those stains. She enjoyed the visual, and I think it helped her understand that we need Jesus Christ. It especially helped her understand why we get baptized. She is so excited to be baptized and her mom is too, which is so nice to see. Aubrey was talking about how she wants to hand out invitations to her baptism. I just love that family so much, and I'm so grateful that I'll be here to attend their baptism. That really means a lot to me, and I'm grateful that the Lord is giving me this opportunity to be a part of it.


                                                                   With Aubrey
 We also taught Brother Dumond this week. He's technically less-active because he can't come to church. He has two children who are mentally disabled and he takes care of them every weekend, so he literally cannot come to church. His kids are too out of control for him to bring them. I've been teaching him for a long time. I actually taught him last June during my first transfer when I was over here in Ventura while Sister Tippetts was on exchanges. It's amazing how different he is now compared to then. He was just so closed off then and he blamed everything that was going wrong in his life on God. Now it's a stark contrast. He just has such a bright light in his eyes. He comes to our Book of Mormon class each week, reads on his own, and prays frequently. He also just really appreciates the missionaries. He expresses a lot of gratitude for us and always keeps commitments that we leave with him. When we went over for our lesson on Wednesday, he called us beforehand and said that he had a surprise for us. He was so happy when we got there. He even prepared drinks for us! Well, we sat down and he said "Ok, are you ready for your surprise?!" "Yes!" we replied. He said that he was fasting for me to have a good surgery. Smack! I was hit in the face by what seemed like a wall, which was the Spirit. We had just taught him about fasting the lesson before that. I think the reason that I was so overwhelmed about that was because I saw how happy it made him; first to be serving me, second because he was obeying God's commandments, and third - he was filled with the Spirit. I was so grateful for the Spirit in that moment and for the atonement. It had truly changed this man and anyone could see that his face was lit up with the light of Christ. I am so grateful for him and that we've been able to teach him.
I'm so excited to work with Sister Burwell for another transfer. She has become my best friend in this mission and I'm so grateful for her. We just really love being together and I'm excited that we'll get to work together to find people to teach here in Ventura. This area is ready to be worked, hard, and we're ready to do it. It's going to be a good transfer.

I love you all,
Sister Bennett


P.S. - I don't know if you realize, Mom and Dad, but naming Ammon "Ammon" was the best idea ever. He's my favorite missionary. Ammon needs to read about him in the Book of Mormon so he understands how great of a man that our little brother Ammon is named after. Good choice on the name.

More to add –

 I forgot to tell you about when I got my teeth out. As I came out of the anesthesia (I have no idea how to spell that), I was a bit loopy. I tried to teach the nurses about the Word of Wisdom because I really didn't like the feeling of being on drugs. Sister Burwell also said that I kept asking “When is my mom coming....l want her." She said I asked that at least ten times. It made her feel sad for me. I kind of did just want my mom. I also said that no one should ever do drugs...because they're the worst. I definitely didn't like not being in control. You know me...I like control. Haha. I thought I'd just tell you about it. She recorded videos of me that I tried to send, but they're too big to email.:( They're pretty funny. hahah. Someday I'll show you. Love you!







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